South Carolina Highway Patrol, South Carolina
End of Watch Monday, May 16, 2005
Reflections for Lance Corporal Jonathan Wade Parker
Trooper nine years ago today you were taken from your family and South Carolina lost a hero. I just left 527 and Skinner Rd. Lin was there when I arrived and together we did what I have done ever May 16th since 2005. Prayed for your family and relived what we could have done differently. I tried blaming the coward that started the events of that day and did a lot of what if's. Brother I am still sorry that I could not get through the flames. RIP Trooper you will not be forgotten
Inv. Rudy Tisdale
May 16, 2014
Jon,
It's been 9 years now and it still doesn't get any easier. Sitting here on 527 as I have on every May 16 since and I still feel the emotional pain of that day. I'm sorry that we couldn't get to you in time brother. So many questions, so many "what ifs"; but the answers won't change what happened. Miss ya bud. Still fighting the flames.
Lin
Retired Inv. T. O. (Lin) Ham
Clarendon Cty Sheriffs Office
May 16, 2014
Jon,
It is May once again. The greening leaves and warm sunshine belie the sadness that this time of year holds for me and those who love you.
On May 16, next Friday, you will have been gone away from us for nine years. Nine years.
Love you, always.
Mom B.
Debbie Brewer
Family
May 8, 2014
Trooper Parker eight years have passed since the state of South Carolina lost a protector in grey. I traveled over to Skinner Rd. and 527 today and sat for awhile as I have done ever year on this date and tried to think of anything that I could have done differently in 2005. Again brother I'am sorry I couldn't get through the flames. Continue to watch over those of us still on the line. RIP Troop
Inv. Rudy Tisdale
May 16, 2013
Jon,
Thanks for all that you did and all that you have inspired others to do. Praying for the men and women that serve and protect us everyday.
Much Love/Never Forget
Marc Brewer
family
May 16, 2013
Today marks eight years since you were taken from us. Sometimes it seems like eight days. We will never forget you. Loving you all the way to heaven,
Your favorite Mother-in-Law Debbie
Debra Brewer
Family
May 16, 2013
Jon,
I remember the great times we had on the road. I still have the leather ticket book holder you made. I cherish it and the memories! Miss you brother.
Clint Moore
Friend and former officer
May 14, 2013
Thinking of you today on your birthday. Giving thanks to God for the time that you were here. Miss you and love you.
Debbie Brewer
Family
October 11, 2012
To fully appreciate the heroes of the present, we must recognize our heroes of the past. Your heroism and service is honored today, the seventh anniversary of your death.
Your family is in my heart's embrace. Our families began our grief journeys very close in time.
Rest In Peace.
Phyllis Loya
Mom of fallen California Officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg PD, eow 4/24/05
May 24, 2012
Trooper Parker,
Its been 7 years and I still see the flames and feel the heat. I told my oldest daughter about the significance of May 16th. I cried as did she. She told me that it was gods plan and that Rudy and I did all that we could. She told me that you had already gone to be with god. This, comming from a 13 year old touched my heart and helped me through the 7th anniversary of your passing. It still hurts. Praying for your family. Rest peacefully my brother. Thank you for your sacrifice.
Lin
Inv T.O. (Lin) Ham
CCSO Investigations
May 20, 2012
Trooper its been seven years to the day that I failed to get through the flames. I made my way to 527 and Skinner rd today like I have every year since 2005 and said the same prayer for your family. RIP Troop and as always I'm sorry.
INV. Rudy Tisdale
Divison of Investigations SCDC
May 16, 2012
I can't stop thinking about you today bro. Lots have things have changed in seven years and. Boy do I wish you were here to live it with me. As I sit by your resting spot I reflect all those times good and bad. I believe you are the only man I have ever sat in the median and cried with. No matter what it was I always could count on you. You are a great friend!
Fred Moore
SCSO
May 16, 2012
Seven years of mornings ago, we all got up, got ready for work, went to out jobs, but one of us would never return home. That was you. Miss you. Love you all the way to heaven.
Mom B.
Debbie Brewer
family
May 16, 2012
Seven years. This time of year, the leaves have a certain shade of green, the air a certain feel which causes us to feel anew the pain, the shock, of your loss.You will never, ever be forgotten.
Debbie Brewer
family
May 3, 2012
Jon,
As the years pass, the pain still shows. I think about that ill fated day in May, 2005 and the uneasy feeling as Rudy and I followed in the pursuit. I still see the flames, I still feel the heat, I'm sorry my brother that we couldn't get through the flames. It still hurts just as bad as it did almost 7 years ago, but I am honored and privileged to have known a hero such as you. Rest peacefully my brother. Thank you for your sacrifice.
Lin
Inv T.O. (Lin) Ham
Clarendon County Sheriff's Office
March 29, 2012
Dearest Jon,
Still miss you every single day. You will never be forgotten.
Love,
Mom B.
Debbie Brewer
Family
February 22, 2012
Hey JonJon...it's been a while since I've left a message, but I do think about you often...I don't know why you were taken away from us, but God had a reason...sure do miss you...you sure are a hero in my book...I know Mike and Karen, and of course Mom and Dad miss you very much...Can't wait to see you again...Love you always...Dee
Dianne Schaffer
Sister
September 11, 2011
TROOPER ITS BEEN 6 YEARS TODAY SINCE YOUR WATCH ENDED AND SOUTH CAROLINA LOST A HERO. WE'VE STILL GOT THE WATCH AND I KNOW YOU'VE BEEN RIDING BACK UP WITH US AND FOR THAT I THANK YOU. AS ALWAYS BROTHER I'AM SORRY I COULDN'T GET THRU THE FLAMES
SGT. RUDY TISDALE
CLARENDON COUNTY S.O.
May 16, 2011
I thought of you about a kajillion times today. Six years ago. There was a wreath at the Clarendon Co. LE Memorial.
Remembering you always, all the way to heaven.
Debbie Brewer
ma-in-law
May 16, 2011
Life goes on; seasons change as do we all. One thing that will never change is the empty space in the hearts of all those who love you. Love, not loved. Our love for you will live on in our hearts. Remembering you, every day, always.
Debbie Brewer
April 7, 2011
Uncle Jon-Jon,
More of your brothers in uniform were killed today here in Tampa. I wonder if the killers will ever know how much pain they have caused the families of the officers...? I wonder if your killer ever thinks of the devastation he has caused our family...? Today, I struggle to understand this crazy world.
I miss you so much.
Love,
Kim
Kimberly Daly
Niece
January 24, 2011
Miss you man I have change if you need it
T. L. Herbert
January 24, 2011
I think and reflect about you all the time these days brother.
Cpl. F L Moore
SCSTP
January 14, 2011
Rest In Peace brother, your memory will never be forgotten.
Officer C. Davis
Charleston County Sheriff's Office
July 12, 2010
Its been five years today and your brothers in grey will never forget you.L/Cpl I never had the chance to meet you because my patrol class didn't start until 07/10/2005.God bless you and your family because I know it never gets any easier. L/Cpl any time you want to ride shotgun you're more than welcome.God speed sir.
Sr/Trp W.T. McKinney
South Carolina Highway Patrol
May 16, 2010

